Chapter 1: The Reality of Impermanence

Recently, I've been contemplating the transient nature of everything in life, particularly after attending a funeral. At first, it felt somewhat disheartening. We often resist the idea of our own impermanence or that of our loved ones and the things we cherish. However, the only constant in our world is change itself. This realization has shifted my perspective profoundly over the last couple of months. Although I have always recognized this truth, I had never truly focused on it until now. I find myself reminding myself of it daily.

In reflecting on this, I understand that everything in our lives is fleeting; we arrive in this world with nothing and depart with only the memories of our experiences. My apartment, my laptop, my job, my friendships, and even my emotions—everything is merely on loan to us.

Life is in a constant state of flux, and we, too, are always evolving. As you read these words, change is happening within you. Although it can be unsettling to acknowledge that everything is temporary, this awareness opens up opportunities for greater presence and appreciation for the people, places, and things around us.

I strive to immerse myself in these fleeting moments, embracing gratitude. I make a conscious effort to notice the little things, to share laughter, to express love, to appreciate what I have, and to find contentment in the present. After all, each moment is just that—here one moment and gone the next.

As I reflect on my journey, I realize that I am not the same person I was when I first entered this world. Photographs from my infancy show a different version of me, and even from one year to the next, I was changing—my very atoms and molecules continually evolving.

“Life can be likened to a train journey where passengers come and go at various stops. Some are mere acquaintances, while others are close friends or family, whom we might wish to accompany us throughout the journey. When it’s their time to disembark, it can feel premature, and we might take it personally. However, just as baggage comes on and off at each station, so too do people enter and exit our lives as our paths intersect briefly. When the journey ends, we carry with us only the memories—the 'baggage' we choose to keep.”

Thank you for taking the time to engage with my reflections today. I am grateful to Medium for this platform and to all of you wonderful individuals who support my journey. Connect with me on Instagram and Facebook for more insights.

Chapter 2: Insights from Alan Watts

In the video, What If Money Was No Object? - Alan Watts, the renowned philosopher discusses the significance of pursuing what genuinely fulfills us rather than being driven by monetary concerns. His insights encourage us to rethink our priorities and embrace our passions.

In another thought-provoking video, You Can't Get Something Without Nothing | Alan Watts, Watts explores the balance of gain and loss in life, reminding us that every achievement comes with its own sacrifices, urging us to be mindful of this dynamic.