Create Your Bucket List: Start Living Now, Not Later
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Chapter 1: The Importance of a Bucket List
Have you ever considered putting together a bucket list? This is essentially a compilation of experiences and goals you wish to achieve before your time is up. Oddly enough, many people only contemplate this list when they are confronted with thoughts of mortality. So, why not initiate this list now and continually add or check off items as you go along? Why wait until age limits your abilities to pursue those dreams?
Your Bucket List Explained
The concept of a "bucket list" is derived from the phrase "kick the bucket," signifying death. It gained popularity thanks to the 2007 film The Bucket List, which starred Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman as two men who meet in a hospital and decide to create a list of experiences they want to share before they pass away. However, there’s no need to wait for a wake-up call regarding your mortality to jot down your aspirations.
Encourage your children to compile their own lists early on—minus the morbid details. Their lists might include whimsical dreams like visiting Legoland. Each time they check off an item, it can motivate them to add more goals, fostering a sense of accomplishment, no matter how minor the task may seem. Imagine if you had started your own list at ten; how many experiences could you have cherished by now?
Consider creating two separate lists: one for significant adventures, such as traveling the globe, and another for the smaller, everyday tasks you continuously postpone.
Section 1.1: Don’t Wait Until It’s Too Late
Starting your list at a young age gives you a better chance to complete more items. Dave Freeman, author of 100 Things to Do Before You Die, tragically passed away at 47 after an accident, having only checked off half of his goals. If he had waited until retirement to begin his list, he wouldn’t have accomplished anything at all. As Freeman poignantly states, “This life is a short journey. How can you make sure you fill it with the most fun and that you visit all the coolest places on earth before you pack those bags for the very last time?”
Waiting until you’re facing death can be problematic, as physical limitations may prevent you from experiencing adventures like skydiving or trekking the Great Wall of China. You often hear people reflect on what they would do with just six months to live, yet why aren’t they pursuing those desires now? If you are given a terminal diagnosis, the last thing you might want to do is leave your loved ones to chase after fleeting experiences.
Section 1.2: Embrace Experiences Now
When my daughters were young, I joined a group of moms waiting for our children to finish dance class. The conversation turned to saving clothes for special occasions. I shared my belief that we shouldn’t reserve our finest things for a "best" day. I want my daughters to enjoy their best outfits while playing outside, understanding that every day can be special.
My grandmother often saved items for her seldom-used caravan, which meant she hardly enjoyed them. In my youth, it was common for families to have a pristine “best room” that was rarely occupied. This seems absurd to me. I shared with the moms that I would hate to think my last thought was wishing I had worn that beautiful dress I was saving for a special occasion.
The same logic applies to experiences. If you can’t afford an adventure yet, that’s understandable, but set a near-future date so that you commit to making it happen. Visualize your desires to increase the likelihood of turning them into reality.
Chapter 2: Make Today Count
My father passed away unexpectedly at 56, leaving behind unfulfilled dreams, such as living on a boat. While he enjoyed many aspects of life, I regret not asking him about his childhood and experiences in the Navy. I thought we would have time for that conversation, a day that sadly never arrived.
Reflect on the things you hope to do someday. They don’t have to be monumental; they can be as simple as reading a book you’ve long wanted to start or taking a walk. Although it sounds cliché, living each day as if it were your last is wise, as there are no guarantees for tomorrow. Make an effort to find significance in each day, whether it’s reconnecting with a friend or simply enjoying a moment of peace.
Days can blend together, appearing similar. Therefore, aim to accomplish at least one item from your everyday list each day. Keep adding to your experiences, no matter how trivial they may seem. Remember that today is all we truly possess, so check off some items from your bucket list today and strive to make today extraordinary.
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